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Both vinyl wrap and laminex are tough products. The main differences are vinyl wrap is a lot more expensive with most cabinet makers. But a good quality vinyl wrap usually looks more upmarket than laminex.
If you go with laminex for the doors I always choose the 3mm rounded edge profile - it's very contemporary. Or the Shaker profile for a traditional look. I also would avoid the gloss finishes as they may not be as durable as the matt (flint) finishes.
What are you thinking of using for the bench tops?